The ‘foodie’ title has always given me pause.
Although many people enjoy eating, individuals often express this sentiment because they take pride in their individual dining experiences and anticipation for future menu items. Once in conversation, many will share their extreme likes or dislikes of ingredients, cuisines, or flavors.
My understanding of a ‘foodie’ transcends mere culinary knowledge or credentials. True food enthusiasts demonstrate their passion through actions and appreciation for diverse foods and dining experiences, unconstrained by restrictive diets. They embrace opportunities to explore various ingredients and remain unaffected by transient political trends. For these individuals, the enjoyment of food is deeply ingrained in their lifestyle, continually considering people, places, and culinary delights.
Self-appointed ‘food philosophers’ can complicate committee decisions with their opinions. They claim to represent all members’ interests, yet their actions suggest otherwise. While advocating for innovation or creativity, they announce dietary preferences that disrupt consensus. In addition, members who dine the most feel their voice should take center stage, yet they might simply be fatigued by numerous visits.
All these views contribute to today’s club menu misalignment. Personal preferences lead to overwhelming and oversized Cheesecake Factory menu sizing and predetermined alignment at local Starbucks due to fear of predictable refusals. Great brands understand that cannot prioritize every shareholder’s request over general customer satisfaction.
What if wine could be modified like food? Are contemporary food modifiers focused on diet or desire?Sommeliers are generally not asked to reduce alcohol levels, adjust tannins, or change bubble size, likely because it is known that they cannot do so, rather than them not wanting to. If such modifications were possible, bartenders might need to manage multiple drink modifiers, potentially increasing their workload, similarly to chefs.
Meeting members’ needs is crucial for any club’s success. Personalized service is often essential but becomes challenging when the volume or complexity of requests overwhelms the menu concept. A breaking point occurs when some requests are so self-serving or irrational that no compromise is possible. For example, allergies or serious reactions related to safety must be considered. Our club implemented a second flyer for specific foods, catering to a small minority of members. Most individuals with true allergies understand the risks and tend to choose safer options.
A General Manager once informed me he brought his board into the kitchen. They quickly observed tickets pouring out of the point-of-sales machine. One ticket was six inches long, prompting a member to ask if it was for a private party. “No,” replied the chef, “just four guests with many modifiers.” Modifiers aren’t the main issue; it’s the change in production that causes delays. The ticket process slows down as orders before and after are stalled. The solution lies in education, tolerance, and mutual respect. Both sides deserve value and consideration. Adults must be told “no” when necessary, and Presidents should support the majority’s greater good. General Managers face challenges but can improve relationships by communicating hospitality to their boards, thus protecting the club’s original mission.
This discourse regarding members’ needs and wants will persist indefinitely. Those who understand the interplay among stakeholders have an easier existence than those who believe there is a definitive solution. Ultimately, we are all humans, which means the menu choice will always be a discussion, not a final choice.


